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please find some time rn and hydrate yourself ✌
🎶 *whistles a happy tune*
You are not an awful person if you hate your abuser.
Even if they apologized.
Even if they’re family.
Even if they’re mentally ill
Even if they were abused themselves.
You are allowed to hate them. It does not make you awful.
I know society pushes on us to forgive. To “be the better person.”
I’m here to tell you. They abused you. They are not entitled to your forgiveness. That’s up to you. It’s not up to anyone else.
Do what you need to do. You’re doing just fine.
Posted on Tuesday, 26 October 2021 with 7,639 notes
“Great people do things before they’re ready. They do things before they know they can do them. Doing what you’re afraid of, getting out of your comfort zone, taking risks like that - that’s what life is.”
— Amy Poehler
Posted on Monday, 25 October 2021 with 869 notes
“Other people’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.”
— Les Brown
Posted on Monday, 25 October 2021 with 765 notes
Posted on Monday, 25 October 2021 with 316 notes
Image description: “Having a bad day doesn’t undo the progress you’ve made” written in colorful letters on a beige background covered in little, colorful stars. Credited to “adoseofreminders”.
Posted on Sunday, 24 October 2021 with 285 notes
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Posted on Sunday, 24 October 2021 with 161 notes
Image description: “All the things I worried about that never even happened” written in yellow on the cover of a drawing of a blue book. Credited to “crazyheadcomics”.
Posted on Sunday, 24 October 2021 with 217 notes
“When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.”
— Unknown
Posted on Saturday, 23 October 2021 with 345 notes
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Posted on Saturday, 23 October 2021 with 432 notes
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Posted on Saturday, 23 October 2021 with 182 notes
<3
please take a break and laugh at something funny!!! ❤❤
Posted on Friday, 22 October 2021 with 26 notes
Image description: "Please stop looking for someone to "fix" you or to love you into worthiness. You are already worthy. You just have to be able to see it" written in black on a purple background. Credited to "blessingmanifesting".
Posted on Friday, 22 October 2021 with 471 notes
You are enough. And you have always been enough, no matter what they said.
Posted on Friday, 22 October 2021 with 1,319 notes
Anonymous asked:
Is it toxic for someone to just hang up on you when you're talking about your issues like they're annoyed after they've vented to you before hand?
I did with my sister, she went on about her problems, I listened of course and gave as much advice as I could. Then when I said something that bothered me she automatically says "Ugh! Deal with that yourself!Goodbye!"
hey anon,
i don’t know about ‘toxic’ but it is certainly an immature, unpleasant way to end a phone call. if i were you, i’d have a convo with my sister about how that made me feel and how we can end calls on a better note. especially when the phone calls involve discussing heavy topics.
(side note: i really, really dislike when people cannot end a phone call politely and it leaves me talking to dead air for a few moments before i realize they hung up so this is a pet peeve of mines!)
stay safe,
maya